Sometimes men I've just met will hug me after their massage. It's a little uncomfortable to say the least, but I indulge them. Most of them wait until after I've worked on them a few times before they hug me goodbye and I'm more comfortable hugging them since I've gotten to know them a little more.
I did have one rare occasion where a man hugged me as soon as we met. I went to shake his hand, he pulled me in for a hug. Awkward!!
Anyway, when my client was leaving he leaned in for a hug, so I hugged him back, told him I enjoyed meeting him and I hoped to see him again.
Then he did what some others have done and this is why I get uncomfortable. After the hug, his hand lingered on my low back/butt and then he patted my ass.
WHY?!?!?!
I almost forgot the best part. It almost makes up for him being a perv and touching my ass.
He had the biggest nipples I have ever seen on a man! Seriously. Huge.
They looked kinda like this...
I swear, they were about that big and brown as all get out! He looked like he had the nipples of a woman.
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I've had other men think it's ok to touch me during their massage. On more than one occasion, I've had a man grab ahold of my calf while they were laying face down as I worked on their back.
When they do this, they have the nerve to ask me "is this ok?" Um, no. It's most certainly not ok. I tell them this and they let go and nothing further happens. The last man that did that to me, did so after stripping naked in front of me. I tell people(men and women) to get undressed and get under the sheet. Well men take this to think I want to watch them undress and many start to strip before I can leave the room. That's what this guy did. I told him to get undressed and he literally pulled his shorts down to his ankles. Once I realized what he was doing I turned around so I didn't have to see what he was trying to show me.
Now, I tell people to wait until I leave the room to undress.
The only time I let someone hold on to my leg during a massage was when I was working on a little old man. He reminded me of this guy...
I really think he just wanted to have a connection with someone and he didn't mean anything sexual, he just wanted the contact.
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I'll leave you with this doozy of a story.
I got an e-mail from a man that wanted to know if I would verbally humiliate him during the massage.
Excuse me, come again?
You heard me right. He wanted me to tell him how worthless he was, how short he was and according to him, how small his penis was.
Apparently, his previous therapist would provide this service to him and he got off on that.
Oh yeah, and she would make him dress up in women's lingerie and tell him how pathetic he was and then threaten to bring all her friends over to laugh at him.
I told him to kindly fuck off.
Not really, but I did tell him I didn't feel comfortable doing that and he would have to look elsewhere.
Maybe find a dominatrix.



6 comments:
Oh Bobbi....the nipples really only get that big if you are pregnant. Did you work on the Pregnant MAN??
I remember the guy that wanted to be humiliated....my thoughts were...That Guy Needs a WIFE! LOL!
I can't believe what you have to put up with... Maybe you should play it safe and get a job at Aveda. OR don't play it safe and get lots of good material for a book.
What is WRONG with some people? Seriously!
I am so sorry you have to put up with that.
And gee, I'm totally overdue for a massage.
Now I feel bad because - I have a massage therapist friend who does my massage... and part of me feels bad that I should find someone anonymous to massage me... but she is so strong and does such a good job that paying someone else would just be stupid!
I do feel bad because one day I was rushing out of the house to make my massage appt... wearing my workout clothes... and I didn't realize until I got undressed for my massage, that I - you know- don't wear underwear with my workout pants and -oops- here I am all naked while my friend massages me. I hope she didn't think I was some sort of weirdo!!!
Just to be clear... I pay my friend. I just realized it sounded like maybe I didn't and I don't want to be judged!!
Yikes, sorry for all that you have to put up with. That nipple thing is so funny though!
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