Ya know, I think this is another reason why I'm still single.
I see how men are and what they "expect" from a massage and it's disgusting.
I don't trust men. At all.
And I know not all men are this way but I see enough of this behavior on a daily basis for me to have a REAL trust issue with men.
A client I worked on a few times a couple of weeks ago texted me this morning for a massage. It was this guy.
So obviously he has some issues that need to be addressed and I'm totally ok with that but he told me today and I quote, "You will most likely have to do a full release. I have been in pain."
So I asked him what exactly his definition of full release was.
His response was, " Medically called testicular pressure ejaculation therapy."
You can throw fancy medical terminology at it all you want but it still doesn't change the fact of what you want.
And I'm NOT doing it.
Which is what I told him and that he needed to find another therapist.
And he wrote back, "Darn, you are very good."
I know I'm good! And I used to enjoy doing this but now? Not so much.
And I even clearly state in bold letters in my ads that all my massages are therapeutic only and are non sexual/sensual in nature. But they don't care, think I'm kidding or they think I'm trying to keep a low profile so the cops don't get me for solicitation.
I'm getting to the end of rapidly fraying rope.
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How sad that you are unable to perform your profession without being harassed by pervs!
Put in your ad "Women only". No guy has the right to harass you like that.
"testicular pressure ejaculation therapy", my @$$!
Wow. I am so sorry that you get these kinds of 'customers'.
Would it help if you said you'd only take doctor referrals or something?
My massage therapist and I were talking about this... she was fortunate to find an office space at a great upscale location at a great rental rate. She's been there a for probably 6 months... and in the past few weeks a new business has been remodeling across the hall.... turns out, it is also a massage business.
She is very suspicious.... because it's being managed by a man with one (female ) massage therapist and told my friend that they do a different massage... "relaxation only" based on that, the tacky signage, and the hours they intend to be open..... she is ready to call the cops on them!!!
Of course, it's 'businesses' like that - that make people think that it's okay to ask any massage therapist for that kind of thing.
Eeeewwww.
I'm so sorry about that! I would never want to read a story like that|!!
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Oh yes men are pigs, that man you said probably has wife and kids....disgusting! I am sorry that you had to experience this.
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So sad, and how disqusting of him!
you poor thing!! so sorry you keep running into awful men like that. here's to finding those one in a million guys who treat us girls right!
XO
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